How Do I Get My Hair to Look Like I Got out of the Shower?

Just to be clear, I don't want my hair to look wet. The thing is, when I get out of the shower and wait for it to air dry a bit, it looks relatively good. Nice amount of volume, sharp. Kinda like this http://www.hairfinder.com/haircollections/mens-hairstyle.jpg

But then after I sleep and wake up, my hair has too much volume and looks very plain and bland. Like this: http://images.usatoday.com/life/_photos/2003/2003-09/09-lopez-inside.jpg
Except more plain.

Also I have straight hair but it's somewhat wavy.

Suggestion:

go to the hair dresser and ask them to thin it out with thinning shears and also ask for a choppy layered cut…. also use less shampoo and more conditioner and maybe switch to a deep conditioning conditioner