My Mom Won't Give Me Freedom at All? Please Help?

Hi I am a guy and I am not gay at all by the way. Just metrosexual and my mom won't give me freedom at all I have a very unique style. its like metro/punk style. I dress very fashionable with skinny jeans, some designed/flare bootcut rise jeans, jewellery, scarves, nice designed shirts, the modern suit type and I have nice high heled boots. Lately I saw this boots on the web that looks very nice for me. the high heels are way bigger than all my boots and because of that my mom won't let me buy the. than I want a nice haircut and she says that some haircuts only gays wear them and I really want that cut to my hair. I know it would look good. Here are some of the styles that I want to do to my hair.

http://www.google.ca/imgres?imgurl=http://www.hji.co.uk/hjimages/images/qhs1485/hji/medium/2003-men-long.jpg&imgrefurl=http://cellebrity-hollywood-hairstyle.blogspot.com/2009/11/mens-short-hairstyles-long-haircuts.html&usg=__oJQ7eaZRHgG5ycnR7dIs6gRrcIk=&h=536&w=402&sz=36&hl=en&start=181&zoom=1&tbnid=6v71dMynrDp-FM:&tbnh=177&tbnw=125&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dhaircuts%2Bfor%2Bmen%26hl%3Den%26biw%3D1020%26bih%3D507%26gbv%3D2%26tbs%3Disch:1&itbs=1&iact=rc&dur=370&ei=XMeeTMKPI8Pflgfh0LTsAg&oei=lcaeTLeGCMKblgeWna3sCQ&esq=2&page=16&ndsp=11&ved=1t:429,r:5,s:181&tx=113&ty=95

http://www.google.ca/imgres?imgurl=http://www.emohaircare.com/wp-content/gallery/mens-emo-hairstyle/adam-lambert-hairstyles-2.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.emohaircare.com/tag/emo-hair-for-boys&usg=___kw9LRFmp4MDrq_k301VEVOY1_g=&h=469&w=328&sz=22&hl=en&start=0&zoom=1&tbnid=CZujtwQ3l644tM:&tbnh=164&tbnw=114&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dadam%2Blambert%2Bhairstyle%26um%3D1%26hl%3Den%26rlz%3D1R2RNSN_enCA390%26biw%3D1003%26bih%3D507%26tbs%3Disch:1&um=1&itbs=1&iact=rc&dur=260&ei=xseeTNzeEYWglAeD8OjiCQ&oei=xseeTNzeEYWglAeD8OjiCQ&esq=1&page=1&ndsp=11&ved=1t:429,r:2,s:0&tx=58&ty=43

and these are the boots

http://www.phixclothing.com/beat-boot-cuban-heel-suede-black-p-2308_7_16.html?cPath=7_16

like what can I do. I like being a bit different and I feel that my mom controls me a lot and doesn't want me to do what I want. I am 20 years old by the way. What can I do?

Suggestion:

if your twenty and she is controlling you then its obvious move out and get your haircut it's never been simpler